•October 14, 2011 • Leave a Comment

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Why Women Cheat More Than Men – 3 Reasons

•June 2, 2011 • Leave a Comment

Got a bad case of wandering eye? You’re in good company — a survey of 3,000 people found that women are more likely to cheat than men.

The poll, taken by British dating firm Coffee & Company, showed that while 9 percent of men were certain they’d be unfaithful if they fell for somebody else, a whopping 25 percent of female respondents said they would definitely have an affair if an outsider piqued their interest.

How do you know if you’re likely to wind up in someone else’s bed? The survey claims that women age 35 to 40 were the most likely to dabble in infidelity. One popular reason: Many are childless and looking to get more than a good-night kiss as a result of the tryst, Coffee & Co. reports.

But that’s not the only reason why women are more likely to cheat on their partners, the survey says.

Many look for love elsewhere out of feelings of neglect, either physical or emotional. If sex becomes, well, kind of boring and predictable, women may wander away to find someone else who can spice things up.

Feeling emotionally undervalued or just flat-out ignored can also lead to infidelity. If a husband is neglecting his wife so he can, say, work on his ship-in-a-bottle collection, the wife might go on the prowl for a guy who makes her feel good about herself — as opposed to, say, hanging out with a husband who makes her feel less interesting than a tiny ship encased in glass.

It’s important to remember that all relationships take work and none are perfect. The solution to unhappiness in love and marriage is probably not to have sex with a stranger. It’s much more likely to involve communicating with your significant other and working out your problems — before you do irreparable harm (just 15 percent of men say they would forgive a cheater).

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Online Infidelity

•April 11, 2011 • Leave a Comment

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The reality today is that the computer has become an integrated part of most people’s life. We use them for work, play, shopping and when researching something like the possibility of hire a private investigator. The same is true for cheaters. They send e-mail to the “other” person, they look at websites about sexual performance, weight loss, infidelity, how not to get caught, etc. etc. In a growing number of cases, people are meeting and developing relationships on-line. They are in chat rooms having on-line conversations, posting messages to discussion bulletin boards and visiting web sites to meet people. Frequently these relationships grow from a cyber-affair into a real world relationship. These can grow into regular e-mailing and instant messaging about how they feel toward one another and what they are up to. Accordingly, the computer can be a treasure chest of information that can help a spouse or loved one who is looking to know what’s going on.

Why an internet relationship?

Some interesting statistics about “on line” activity

57% of people have used the Internet to flirt. (Greenfield and Rivet – Internet Use & Abuse Survey 1999).
38% of people have engaged in explicit online sexual conversation and 50% of people have made phone contact with someone they chatted with online. (Greenfield and Rivet – Internet Use & Abuse Survey 1999).
Evidence proves there is a high correlation between on-line cybersex and subsequent real-time sexual affairs. (Greenfield and Rivet – Internet Use & Abuse Survey 1999)
31% of people have had an online conversation that has led to real-time sex. (Greenfield and Rivet – Internet Use & Abuse Survey 1999)

As private investigators we get asked this question frequently. In our experience, it seems that the internet is safer and easier to meet people in than the real world is. On line, you can be the person you want to be. Maybe better looking, richer, happier, etc., etc. and it’s safe to be that person. Mike, who was a mechanic in the Navy ten years ago in real life becomes Mike the former “Navy Seal” on-line. Michelle, whose college roommate became a model in the real world “does some modeling” when chatting with her friends in cyberspace. You can type things on the internet that you would never say in the real world. In short, it gives people a place to fill a lagging self-esteem or to compensate for the short comings of their real life.

Once you “meet” someone on-line who sounds exciting, sexy and interesting, you spend time learning about them and fantasizing about how they look, how well they relate to you, etc. As the “relationship” goes on, the two get to know each other better and the real world begins to enter the conversations. Trust develops because this is the person “you relate to” and it builds up as mo

re time goes by. It then gets to the point where they begin to be even more honest, sometimes totally honest, and an internet affair becomes a real relationship or affair outside of cyberspace.

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Learn How To Lick Feet – Its As Easy As 1,2,3

•April 5, 2011 • Leave a Comment
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How to Lick Feet

Wondering how to lick feet? Many men and women have a fetish about feet. If you are one of them or involved in a relationship with one, you will want to learn how to lick feet just the right way so that you will both enjoy it. This can be a very erotic experience if done correctly. You will both learn how to enjoy a new part of your sexual life. Keeping the spice in a relationship is very important in making sure that it lasts.

Materials:

  • A Couple
  • Your Mouth
  • A Pair of Feet
  1. First off you will slowly want to remove her socks and shoes. You can do this very nicely. If she has on socks, remove them with your teeth by grabbing the end and pulling them off. This will help to set the move for what is going to come next while you learn how to lick feet.
  2. Slowly start to lick the tip of her toes. You will lick the tips and then move slowly up each toe. Lick back down the toe moving your tongue gently. Don’t forget to look up in her eyes from time to time. You can also gently kiss her foot or toes for an added pleasure. Always use your tongue and your mouth. Do not use your teeth. Even a gentle bite does not feel good on feet.
  3. Sucking on her toes is very erotic.Start by taking one entire toe into your mouth and sucking on it gently. Start to suck harder and if she really enjoys it you can place more than one toe in your mouth.By: Katie
    Break Studios Contributing Writer

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Are People Sometimes Programmed to Stay Faithful?

•March 9, 2011 • Leave a Comment

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New Study: People Are (Sometimes) Programmed to Stay Faithful

When the topic of how evolutionary psychology and love comes up, it’s usually because the conversation is veering in the direction of something like, “Oh, men sleep around because they’re biologically programmed to sleep with as many women as possible. They can’t help it!”
Oh, please. I’ve already discussed in my blog why that kind of thing is a lame excuse for cheating. (You could say I’m biologically programmed to smell people) to see if they have good genes. It doesn’t mean I go around sniffing them all day, do I?)
But in a recent New York Times article, columnist John Tierney cites a few interesting new studies that indicate that some of us are, in fact, biologically inclined not to cheat.
One experiment, from Florida State University, discovered that although single men found the 21-year-old female at the center of the experiment most attractive during the most fertile stage of her menstrual cycle, the guys in relationships found her least attractive then! What’s the explanation? It seems that the guys who had girlfriends sensed, at some level, that she was most attractive to them at that moment of the month. But then some other subconscious part of their brain intervened — in order to protect them from potentially upsetting the pleasure and security they derived from their relationship — and convinced them, somehow, she actually wasn’t so sexy.

“This experiment was part of a new trend in evolutionary psychology to study ‘relationship maintenance,’” Tierney writes. “Earlier research emphasized how evolution primed us to meet and mate: how men and women choose partners by looking for cues like facial symmetry, body shape, social status, and resources. But the evolutionary mating game wasn’t just about finding a [hottie] in the savanna’s equivalent of a singles bar. Natural selection favored those who stayed together long enough to raise children: the men and women who could sustain a relationship by keeping their partners happy. They would have benefited from the virtue to remain faithful, or at least the wiliness to appear faithful while cheating discreetly.”
Is that news — that remaining faithful isn’t always a total uphill battle for dudes — encouraging news for those of us interested in fidelity, or what?

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Again & Again – Multiple Orgasms

•March 8, 2011 • 2 Comments
Multiple orgasms

Again and Again

Although some women rarely or never experience orgasm, most women are capable of experiencing orgasm – even multiple orgasm. That’s because women don’t have a refractory period like men do, which is the time between one ejaculation and their ability to have another ejaculation.

Keep On Keeping On

We don’t fully understand why some women experience multiple orgasms and others do not. In part, it may have to do with expectations about sex and orgasm. After all, even one orgasm is difficult for some women to experience, so some women may be happy with one orgasm and may not even try to have a second orgasm after their first.

Other times, women who orgasm during sex with a partner may find that their partner doesn’t continue with sexual stimulation – such as intercourse or oral sex – and so they may not have multiple orgasms because their partner stops stimulating them.

Partners may stop stimulation because they are tired or because, in the case of vaginal intercourse, they ejaculate more quickly than they might like to. It can therefore be easier, for some women, to have multiple orgasms during self-masturbation.

Experiencing the Love Together

If your fiancée is capable of multiple orgasms during masturbation, she may be capable of experiencing them with you as well, such as during oral sex, intercourse or partnered masturbation. It may be easier for her to orgasm with you, once or multiple times, if she feels relaxed, if she doesn’t feel pressured to orgasm, and if she feels highly aroused.

Some women find that they feel more aroused if they fantasize, use dirty talk, feel more connected to their partner, role play, dress up or have sex with lights on or off, depending on their preferences. She may find that certain types of stimulation, such as a slow build up with finger or vibrator stimulation, helps her to become highly aroused and thus more easily orgasmic.

By Dr. Debby Herbenick (M.P.H., Ph.D.)


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Dirty Talk

•March 4, 2011 • Leave a Comment
Talking dirty in the bedroom

Ummm yeah, I like that.

Talking dirty to the one you love (or even just the one you’re with) is one of those sexual behaviors people are uncomfortable with the first time they do it, and the first time they do it with a new partner. To do it well means letting loose and exposing yourself, which always feels scary the first time. Here are some steps to getting comfortable with dirty talk, and ideas for introducing into your sex play.
 
Time Required: Learning to talk dirty is a labor of love, it takes time!
Here’s How:
  1. Be authentic in your dirty talk.
    Dirty talk can feel silly if you expect it to be what you’ve seen in the movies. You might have this idea that dirty talk is something specific. But good dirty talk is completely what you make it, and to do it well, you have to be yourself. While you may take on a role in your dirty talk (e.g. the ravished submissive) you need to find something of yourself in the role. Make a list of different aspects of your personality you can draw on for inspiration.
  1. Find your dirty talk voice.
    You need to find your own way of talking dirty. Your dirty talk might be low rhythmic grunts, high pitched squeals, or precise whispers. It might reflect the way you talk in your daily life, or it might express a different aspect of your personality. You don’t need to pick only one voice, the element of surprise can add an extra sense of anticipation, when your partner doesn’t know what they’re going to get an earful of next!
  2. Expand your dirty talk vocabulary.
    Most of us are raised not to swear. Dirty talk is your opportunity to pull out all the stops on the foul mouth express. Unless you’re role playing calls for it, avoid clinical terms (like penis). If you’re at a loss, do some research. Both of the books recommended below have lists of words. But you can do research online, by reading some raunchy erotica, or in some cases watching porn (although the dirty talk in porn tends to be unimaginative).
  3. Practice dirty talk when you’re alone.
    Carol Queen, author of the highly recommended Exhibitionism for the Shy , suggests starting on your own, talking dirty while you masturbate. Fantasize about having sex with your partner and talking dirty to them. You can start by doing it in your head, but eventually do it out loud.
  4. Establish ground rules with your partner.
    One of the reasons many of us don’t talk dirty is fear of sounding ridiculous, or being put down or rejected by a partner. It’s important to set some rules when you’re willing to take risks like this. Rules like no laughing at one another, and no judgment are important. In the heat of the moment anything can come out of your mouth, and you need to know that your partner is respectful of the ways that can be exposing.
  5. Start slow the first time.
    Don’t feel you have to rush right into elaborate verbal gymnastics. A great way to start with dirty talk is to describe out loud what is happening during sex. Things like “I love the way your hand feels in my….” Or “Your …feels so good on/in my…” Describe what’s happening and how it feels in your body. You can also experiment by telling your partner something you’re going to do to them, or something you want them to do to you.
  6. Experiment with your voice.
    Most of us take for granted all the different things we can do with our voice, and the impact these changes have. Experiment with speed, how fast you talk. Some things call for a staccato barrage, while some things are best said slowly. Change the volume of your voice, try whispering, try screaming, try everything in the middle. Also play with the tenor of your voice. You can sound commanding and harsh, trembling and uncertain, and everywhere in between.
  7. Make dirty talking a two way conversation.
    Once you’ve taken the risk and initiated talking dirty with your partner, ask them to do the same. It isn’t for everyone, and you might find that you like doing it more than hearing it (or vice versa). But being on the receiving and the giving end of dirty talk can give you a different perspective on it, plus you may learn a few things from your partner you didn’t already know.

8.  Make dirty talking a two way conversation.
Once you’ve taken the risk and initiated talking dirty with your partner, ask them to do the same. It isn’t for everyone, and you might find that you like doing it more than hearing it (or vice versa). But being on the receiving and the giving end of dirty talk can give you a different perspective on it, plus you may learn a few things from your partner you didn’t already know.

By Cory Silverberg, About.com Guide


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